Client Doesn't Like to be Touched
My client Ed is a 63-year old business tycoon that isn't in the best shape. He is about 30 pounds overweight, inactive, and loves his scotch. When I met him 5 weeks ago he expressed his desire to feel better and become healthier. He also wants to improve his golf game. Well, when I took Ed through my initial assessments I tested his flexibility with a modified NASM overhead squat test and his shoulder mobility. Ed complained of shoulder problems so I wanted to take a look at his scapular mobility. During the assessment I palpated his shoulder blades. Ed seemed a bit agitated during my palpation, so I asked him if he was alright. He replied "Yes".
I thought nothing more of it.
For our second workout, we performed some static stretching to help increase his overall flexibility. As I had Ed lie down, I proceeded to lift his leg up to assist in stretching his hamstring. He seems to be getting agitated again. I began to think Ed didn't like to be touched. My rationale was that Ed is a big-time business owner that not many people can get close to him (except for family and friends), so I suppose Ed keeps a professional distance from others. So I wanted to spring up a question to Ed that would clarify my thoughts. I said to Ed:
"Ed, you should really think about getting some regular sessions with a massage therapist to loosen up these muscle knots".
As I waited attentively for his response, Ed replied, "John I would but I don't like to be touched".
So, I thought to myself without making this into too big of a deal, I wondered how can I get Ed to increase his flexibility without being assisted by me? As a personal trainer, challenges are part of the job. But the goal of the client is always important and should never be forgotten. So what did I do? I went and purchased Ed a Stretching Strap. I instructed him how to use it and now, instead of being hindered by this small obstacle, I am still able to get my client to achieve what is best for him. I'll keep you posted on his progress...


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